#ItsOver: Playing ban by Women's World Cup champions rocks Spain

August 31, 2023
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Spanish women's football team
The Spanish women's football team celebrate their victory at the FIFA World Cup. Photo: FIFA Women's World Cup/Facebook

After the August 20 World Cup win over England by the Spanish women鈥檚 football team, before a worldwide TV audience, Luis Rubiales, the 鈧900,000-a-year president of the Royal Spanish Football Federation (RFEF), planted an unwanted kiss on Spanish striker Jennifer Hermoso, slung forward Athenea del Castillo Beivide over his shoulder like a sack of potatoes, and grabbed his crotch in a gesture signifying that his women鈥檚 team and trainer (Jorge Vilda) have got balls.

Rubiales鈥 performance provoked a storm of outrage, which culminated in 80 leading women players, including the whole successful World Cup squad, refusing to play for Spain while he and other RFEF leaders remain in their roles.

In an attempt to shrug off the controversy, Rubiales told COPE radio: 鈥淐ome on, let鈥檚 not pay any attention to the idiots and the stupid people. It鈥檚 a kiss between friends celebrating something. Forget the stupid nonsense! What with everything I鈥檝e been through, no more stupid nonsense, no more fuckwits, please!鈥

Since that moment, Rubiales鈥 efforts at damage control and his refusal to resign as RFEF president have only created more damage. It will not only end his career as football supremo in ignominy, but also make it impossible for Spanish soccer to carry on as if nothing happened.

The incident prompted United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights Volker T眉rk to tweet on August 29 that 鈥渨e all have the responsibility to denounce it [sexual harassment and abuse] and struggle against it, and we unite with Jennifer Hermoso and all those who are working to put an end to sexism and abuse in sport.鈥

Football鈥檚 governing body, FIFA, has suspended Rubiales as president of its Spanish affiliate. The Spanish sports regulator has submitted a case for his dismissal to the Sports Administrative Tribunal, and National High Court prosecutors have opened an investigation into whether there are grounds for charging him with sexual assault.

Most of the RFEF鈥檚 regional federations had deserted their leader by August 31.

Path to doom

Rubiales鈥 end will come because of the refusal of the Spanish women鈥檚 team and other leading women players to put up with sexual harassment and humiliation from their RFEF bosses any longer.

Behind their defiance stands Spain鈥檚 strong feminist movement and the main gains it has achieved in law 鈥 the 鈥淥nly Yes is Yes鈥 legislation against sexual harassment and a new Sports Law, which stipulates equality of treatment and representation in sports bodies for women and men.

A step-by-step account of Rubiales鈥 journey to perdition shows how these factors helped end his patriarchal, clientelist rule and shook the football establishment to the core.

Rubiales鈥 first shot at damage control, made on the August 21 flight back from Australia, was to suggest to Hermoso that she do a joint video with him at the Doha refuelling stop, to 鈥渃larify any misunderstanding鈥. Hermoso declined the offer, saying on Instagram 鈥淚 didn鈥檛 like it, but what could I do?鈥.

Rubiales then recorded a solo video in which he made a pseudo-apology after Spanish sports minister Miquel Iceta criticised his behaviour. He said: 鈥淚f there are people who are offended, I have to apologise鈥, but insisted his unwanted kiss had been consensual.

Rubiales also got Vilda to pressure Hermoso鈥檚 family into convincing her to issue some sort of declaration of conciliation, but without success.

That didn鈥檛 trouble the RFEF communications department. If Hermoso wouldn鈥檛 utter the right phrases, they would do it for her. When the team鈥檚 flight arrived in Madrid, an RFEF communiqu茅 appeared with these words attributed to Hermoso: 鈥淭he president and I have a great relationship, his behaviour with all of us has been excellent and it [the kiss] was a natural gesture of affection and gratitude. You can't go over and over a gesture of friendship and gratitude, we have won a World Cup and we are not going to be distracted from what is important.鈥

鈥榃orthless excuses鈥

The next reactions came on August 22 from acting Spanish Socialist Workers' Party (PSOE) Prime Minister Pedro S谩nchez and acting Deputy Prime Minister Yolanda D铆az (of the more radical Sumar coalition).

S谩nchez said that Rubiale's apology had been 鈥渋nadequate鈥, while D铆az called for his resignation over his 鈥渁bsolutely worthless excuses鈥.

Only an RFEF general assembly could sack Rubiales immediately, and when one was called for August 25, the expectation, based on RFEF leaks, was that Spain鈥檚 football boss would yield to the growing calls for him to go.

In the meantime, Hermoso decided to let her agent and the women鈥檚 professional football union FUTPRO handle a case in which the political stakes were rapidly rising.

Its media release announcing this decision said: 鈥淔UTPRO rejects any attitude or conduct that violates the rights of women footballers and from the union we are working to ensure that acts such as those we have seen never go unpunished.鈥

鈥業 won鈥檛 resign鈥

Rubiales' address at the RFEF special general assembly on August 25 was a bizarre affair. The federation鈥檚 minority of women employees were mainly seated in the front rows and Rubiales鈥 parents and children were also present. However, all major clubs stayed away, such that the quorum of 70 out of 140 affiliates was barely reached.

Contrary to expectations, Rubiales went on the offensive, repeating five times that he would not resign: 鈥淎n agreed kiss is enough to throw me out? Is that so serious that I have to go, after having given Spanish football its best management?鈥

The only apology he made was for his 鈥渉ardly edifying鈥 crotch grab (especially in the presence of Spanish royal family members).

Rubiales' speech reproduced all the themes of the cornered macho man: the perpetrator set up as the victim (鈥渢hey are trying to publicly assassinate me") and victim-blaming ("it was she who brought me close to her body").

He also claimed to be victim of a 鈥渨itch hunt鈥 and 鈥渟ocial assassination鈥 by the 鈥渇alse feminism that wants neither equality nor justice鈥.

Who are the true feminists? Rubiales turned to his daughters: 鈥淒on鈥檛 cry. You have to be proud about who your father is. You must differentiate between truth and lies, and I am telling the whole truth. You indeed are feminists, not like the false feminism that鈥檚 around. They don鈥檛 care about people. As a Spaniard, I believe we have to reflect on where we鈥檙e going.鈥

鈥業t鈥檚 over鈥

The response from the women players was immediate. Hermoso鈥檚 fellow team member Alexis Putella was the first to tweet: 鈥淭his is unacceptable. It鈥檚 over. With you, teammate!鈥 From then on #ItsOver (#厂别础肠补产贸) became a Spanish variant of #MeToo, the hashtag of a growing movement demanding the resignation of Rubiales, Vilda and their appointees.

Hermoso said in an August 25 FUTPRO media release that 鈥渁t no moment鈥 did she consent to Rubiales鈥 kiss and that 鈥淚 do not tolerate my word being doubted, even more so when words I never said have been invented鈥.

The RFEF, which had issued photos 鈥減roving鈥 that Hermoso had consented to Rubiales鈥 attention, then announced it was taking legal action against her.

The FUTPRO media release also stated that 80 leading women players, including the whole successful World Cup squad, would refuse to play for Spain 鈥渋f the present leaders continue鈥. That ban has already forced the resignations of most of Vilda鈥檚 technical team.

It has also forced notables and entities in the sports world to declare which side they are on in what has become the most debated topic in years in Spanish bars and on social networks, especially after Rubiales鈥檚 mother declared she was going on a hunger strike聽鈥 which lasted two days before she was admitted to hospital.

In this atmosphere, silence 鈥 adopted by Spanish sports notables such as tennis star Rafael Nadal and former Barcelona FC players Gerard Piquet and Carles Pujol 鈥 is rightly being read as complicity with Rubiales.

On the party-political front, only the far-right Vox has sided with the suspended football boss. Commenting on August 30, the anti-feminists said that 鈥渋t is clear to us that all this controversy has been generated by the S谩nchez government and its media outlets to hide the big problems in which Spain is immersed鈥.

By contrast, commentator Antoni Bassas summed up what Rubiales and his supporters represent: 鈥淧eople who think themselves very clever but are so dumb they themselves have wrecked the biggest success of their career. People who are driving in the wrong direction on the world鈥檚 highway but think that the problem are the others.鈥

[Dick Nichols is 麻豆传媒鈥檚 European correspondent.]

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